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Penis Sensitivity: Keeping Sensation in the Member

Sunday, September 24th, 2017

It’s something many guys simply take for granted: penis sensitivity. After all, they’ve had years of experiencing that intense sensation whenever the penis is touched, whether by themselves or by someone else. It always feels so good that most guys don’t think there could ever be a deadening or diminishment of penis sensitivity and sensation, or that there are penis health steps they can take to keep that intense sensation feeling lively.

Of course, there are steps, things a guy can do to make sure his penis has that good old tingling sensation that makes sex, whether alone or with a partner, so memorably enjoyable. Following are a few of those steps.

- Remember the lube. One of the most common reasons for diminishment of feeling in the penis is excess friction from rough handling. It’s understandable that lubricant may not always be handy – but when it is available, use it. Masturbating in a “dry” state or engaging in penetrative sex with an orifice that is not properly lubricated can damage those delicate nerve endings in the penis by rubbing it raw.

- Go easy on the edging. So there are some nights (or weekends) when a guy just wants to spend some lengthy quality time alone with his penis. Often a guy will end up edging, that is, masturbating for as long as a few hours straight without ejaculating. In such cases, it’s imperative to use lubricant – but be aware that even lubricant doesn’t always protect the penis from a really involved stroke session. Once in while, this is fine; but doing it too often can lead to a guy finding that the stroking simply isn’t as stimulating anymore.

- Avoid injury. Okay, so this seems like a no-brainer – but as guys know too well, the penis and the brain don’t always go together. Some injuries, such as a sudden blow to the penis from another person, may be unavoidable. But others can be. For example, it’s good to “air out” the penis occasionally, especially when fighting a penis odor situation. But if walking around the house naked, don’t get the penis too near an open flame, scalding water, a cat’s claws, etc. And wearing an athletic supporter when playing sports is simply a good protective idea.

- Keep unwanted friction away. Similarly, going commando can be fun, but only for a limited amount of time. The reason is that trousers usually are made of a rougher material, such as denim or wool, than soft cotton underwear. When the penis rubs against this rough fabric, the friction can be uncomfortable and can lead to loss of sensitivity – especially if the experience is repeated frequently.

- Dispense with cologne. Even guys without significant penis odor sometimes wonder if they should put a few spritzes of cologne on their member to make it smell better. Those who have tried it have quickly realized their mistake. Cologne tends to really sting sensitive penis skin; while it is unlikely to lead to permanent loss of sensation, it can in some cases make the skin too uncomfortable for action for a few days.

- Take advantage of a top notch penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin) to prevent loss of penis sensitivity and retain prime sensation. Not all penis health crèmes will do, however; what is needed is one which contains L carnitine. This amino acid can protect against peripheral nerve damage caused by friction, compression, and other common injuries. It is wise to select a crème with alpha lipoic acid. This powerful antioxidant fights free radicals, which in turn cause oxidative stress that can damage penis skin and thereby prevent it from functioning at its peak.

Sexualized Emotions: Can Someone Sexualize Their Own Emotions?

Sunday, September 24th, 2017

At times, someone can mistake thirst for hunger, and there are a number of reasons as to why this tales place. As a result of this, one can end up eating when they are not even hungry.

The Outcome

If one finds it easy to gain weight, and this was to happen on a regular basis, they could end up carrying more weight than they need to. What this then means is that a small problem will have turned into a big problem.

Still, one may exercise on a regular basis, and this may make it easier for them to lose the access weight that they are carrying. Then again, one could be in a position where they don’t go to the gym or they might just find it hard to lose weight, it is then going to be a different story.

Just One Example

This is, of course, just one of the ways in which one can mistake one thing for something else. One could feel lonely and empty, for instance, and after spending time with someone who treats them well, they could come to believe that they are in love.

How they feel when they are around this person and what takes place in their mind when they are not with them will play a big part in this. Through meeting them, it will have allowed them to feel better about themselves.

Time Goes On

However, as time passes one may find that they no longer feel the same way about them. This could be a time when they will find it hard to understand why they no longer feel the same.

Alternatively, one might start to realise that it wasn’t love that brought them together; it was the pain that was within them. Ultimately, the other person just allowed them to run away from their own pain.

The Real Reason

Through being with this person, it has allowed them to feel different, and this is why they were drawn to the other person. The other person would have believed that one loved them, when in reality; it was just that one loved how they felt in their presence.

Due to how low they felt in the beginning, it wouldn’t have been hard for them to fall for someone who showed them affection. One was needy, and so they needed someone to fill the hole that was within them.

Another Example

If one felt sexually aroused, it would be normal for them to come to the conclusion that this shows that they need to have sex or to masturbate. Therefore, there is going to be no reason for them to take step back and to look into why they are having this experience.

What is also going to play a part here is that the western world is more sexually liberated than it used to be. So, one can pay attention to how they feel and then they can take the next step.

From Here

There are likely to be a number of factors that will define what one will do to experience the pleasure that they desire. If they are in a relationship, they may have to wait until their partner is available.

But even if they are with someone, it doesn’t mean that they will wait until they next see them. What they could do is relieve themselves through masturbating, or they could find someone else to take care of their sexual needs.

The Modern Day World

If they are single, on the other hand, they could just end up masturbating. But if they use online dating, for instance, this could mean that they will look for someone who can come and help them out.

It wouldn’t be accurate to say that it will be just as easy for a man to do this as it will be for a woman, though. As long as a woman is reasonably attractive, she will probably be able to find a guy to have sex with whenever she wants.

One Outlook

When one spends a lot of time feeling sexually aroused, they can come to believe that this shows that they have high sex drive. This is just part of who they are, and the only thing they can do is to fulfil this need as and when they can.

There is the chance that this is the truth, and there is then no reason for one to take a deeper look into why they are experiencing life in this way. If they were to take a deeper look, what they could find is that feeling sexually aroused is often a way for them to avoid how they feel.

Mistaking One Thing for Another

However, this could be something that takes place so fast that it stops them from being able to realise this. If they were to just be with what is taking place within them and didn’t try to do anything, they could end up experiencing a lot of pain.

They could feel angry, powerless and even worthless, and this can show that they are carrying trauma. Having sex or masturbating is then going to be a way for them to keep their true feelings at bay.

A Closer Look

The pain that they are carrying could relate to what they have experienced during their adult life and/or it could go back to what happened when they were younger. When they were younger, they may have been abused and/or neglected.


If one can relate to this, and they want to change their life, it might be a good idea for them to reach out for external support. This can be provided by a therapist or a healer.